Shradhyaa Rupa
Aapnaar sesh posting-er pariprekhyitye ei uttor -
Bisimto – er ekti mane jemon “chmotkrityo” temin R ekti mane “abaak” . aami janina “chmotkrityo” O “abaak” duti shabdoi eke aparer paripurak kina ? Jekono jaigai ektir badale annyoti bybohar karle eki mane thake kina ?
Aapni prothom posting-e pratham line-e likhechillen –“ lekha jokhon above-average hoy, amader to bismito hotei hoy …. “
kintu ei “bismito” ke tule “abaak” bsaale mane eki thake ta jantam na . tai chelemanusher (aapnaar deyo upadhi) mane ei prshano esechillo , je aapni thik ki balte chaichen ? –
udaharanswarup IndraNee , Sydney-r katha balechillam okhane IndraNee spasto kare prathame karon janiyechen O pare sei karan hetu uni bismityo hoichen bojha jachhe. Nijer maner bhab O matamot uni aamaar maton chelemanusher kacheu spastyo bhabe tule dharte perechilen .
Dekhun shabder upor prashno chinha parle tabei tate praner shanchar ghate:-
aapnar 2nd posting-e aapni sposhto aamaar prathom prashner uttore likhechen –“ Vinnomot to besh bhalo ekta website … ekhane bhalo lekha berobe na keno……”
ebong - “Ar ami goto 2 bochhor dhore Ivy ebong Sreyar lekha porchhi … ora dujonei bhalo lekhe … Sreya-r ei lekhata amar above-average mone hoyechhe – taai bolechhi – onno kono kaarone boli ni.”
Ekdam soja uttor , aamaar maton chelemanushero bujhte asubidha hochenna ebar.
Kintu aamaar biswaer aaro anekta baki aache - aapni 2nd posting likhechen – “Rabibasor-e Daliadir (amar porichito didi - taai didi bolei sombodhon korlam) lekha amader maane naaree-der joto pechhone thele phele diyechhilo - Sreyar lekha ebaar amader tatotaai egiye diyechhe bole amar mone hoyechhe. etaa tomar mot na holeo - AMAR MOT.”
Uttor : aamar mot ki aapni ei patai dekhechen ? jatadur mane pare Sangita dasgupta roy”er matamoter pare aami 2y byakti je Sreya Ghosh er lekhake bhalo balechi. Ebong ta spashtyo kare balechi. Kintu aapnityo sujasuji statement diye dilen . Aaapni aamaar kon mantyobbyo theke bujhlen Dalidebir lekhake aami balechi egiye debar lekha ebong Sreya Ghoser lekhake balechi pichieye debar lekha ba kharap lekha ?
Dekhun aapni je 5/6 jan ke sreya ghoser lekha pariyechen ebong sei katha prashonge balte giye aagey “mugdho” o pare “bismoy” likechen aamaar maton chelemanusher bujhte asubidha hoini ei bismoy-ta kotha theke elo. Shwabder byabohar bujhte na pereyii ei prashno karechillam . tar uttare aapni attyuo gulo katha likhllen .
eyo likhllen – “Bolchhi je e to bhai bhari mushkil-e phelle …. lekha kharap lagle bala hobe negative feedback abar bhalo bolleo dekhchhi onek prosno jaagchhe - ekhane sob kichhur-i ki koiphiyot daabi kora hoy naki :-)?
Uttor : Aamii bujhte(antytyo aapnar pratham line pare ebong sei context-a parer gulo pare) parini aapni thik ki balte cheyechen tai duti mamuli prashno rekehchillam.
“Prashno” R “koiphiyot” ek jinis noi (antytotyo aamaar maton chelemanush ja jane) bolei jani. R ki adhikare aami aapnaar kaach theke koifiyot dabi karbo !!!!!!!! keno karbo ? aami prashno karte pari matra .
“tabe amar ghat hoyechhe – aar konodin feedback dite aasbo na. nijer mot anujayi bhalo laga mando laga prokash koraay osubidha kothay? ektu bolbe ?”
Uttor : Asha kari keno prashno karechillam bojhate perechi . jehetu aapni aamaar lekhar uttarei likhechen “ ghyat hoyechhe-aar konodin……………” sei jannyo balchi maap kare deben , ei samaanyo prashner uttore aapnaar chale jayota aamaar kache jathestyo dukhere . jehetu karon ta ekhon aami .
jadiyo ekhon ekta bypare annonda hochhe R eirakam annyondo chelemanushderiyi hoi vinnomoter ei patai aapnaar mot O aamaar(chelemanusher) maat ekiye chilo - Sreya Ghoser lekhata khub bhalo.
“Sob prosner uttor diye pash korlam ki na janio kintu. / Ekta sesh katha … tomar aar Rahul-er lekhaao amar khub bhalo laage – naree shoktir joygaan korte giye tomaader naam baad pore gechhilo amar feedback-e … khoma kore dio.”
Uttor : ekhane paash pheler kono bypar nei , aami prashno karechillam matra . pash na phel ei sidhante ashar dhriystyota aamaar nei. Sesh mesh dekhllam Rahul O aamaar lekhar katha balechen kintu je prasange ei ktah utheche ba jei lekhagulo niye katha sei sankhyaii ei bishoye aamaar kono lekha nei. Rahul diyechen . aamaar “naam bad para” ei kathata aprashungiyk mane halo. Kintu keno ballen pathame bujhte parini tarpor bismoyer ghor katlo , aamaar mane halo seshe “Didi” likhechen tai hoityo Aamaar lekha bhalo laage ei gocher ekti santwana puroskar diye gelen . Puroskra jatyo khudrai hok , aami jatoi chelemanush hoi , puroskar –puroskarii tai matha pete grahon karllaam.
Binityo
Arindam chakrabarti
Kolkata -700054